We’ve all done it , some continue to do it ..But complaining, whinging, droppin the “poor me” and constantly seeking sympathy and validation from others has never gotten anyone an inch closer to their dreams and goals in life . Let go of the bullshit, the past and the inner belief of the “I deserve better” attitude because no one is better than any one else, we all fuck up, we all do something that hurts someone at some point but in the end we are all EQUAL individuals , just at different stages of our lives, making mistakes and learning along the way.
So how about instead of thinking we deserve better from others we better OURSELVES within so we don’t feel the need to either seek validation from others, better ourselves within so we stop blaming others for our current situation, mood, issues, anger, stress and drama. We can’t be blaming others for our individual choices and learning paths. Because no matter how much of a good person we are , we will always be THAT^ person to – one person (the one that believes they deserve better than you).
No matter how bad someone has treated us it’s how we chose to REACT, don’t let it define the present you, we have a choice! You can either let it define you and be a bitter you for life or see it as a tool that’s been given and be a BETTER you. We don’t need to constantly put out into the universe how hard our life is, self pity is SHIT! Just because we’ve had a bad experience (duh every body has) it doesn’t need to be projected negatively back out onto that person that was involved, let alone the universe, how about actually looking at it as a positive because it’s given you an opportunity, a challenge, to gain strength and to better yourself as a person!
If we all did that when we go through hard times , everyone would be too busy bettering themselves for a better experience next time rather than whinging and blaming others for who they are and why they act the way they do now. Bitter you or better you. We’ve been given all the tools needed, we just need to do the work. Who the hell has the right to belittle someone else’s journey and life choices anyway which in turn sometimes turn out to be bad ones? Because we ALL make them, that’s life, that’s learning and we have to make them to become more deserving of ourselves and the goodness that awaits.
We all deserve equally.
Lastly have a donut and cheer the fuck up! Life isn’t as hard as you think, it’s your perception, you have the ability to change that or be a bitter sad sack that thinks the world is against you. The choice is yours.